Ryan even sought his mother’s support, but she sided with the bride-to-be. During a heated confrontation, his mother suggested he should also wear red since he was no longer a virgin. This confrontation brought Ryan to tears, but he insisted her wearing white would deceive their guests and claimed different standards for men.

What Did the Woman Decide?
The events made her question her relationship with Ryan. She was appalled by his fixation on her past, particularly her virginity at 18, long before they met. This led her to seek support from others.

In a later update on the “Dating Advice” forum, dated November 24, 2022, she revealed that she had broken off her engagement. Now in her late 20s, she was preparing for her first date in six years, unsure of what to wear to a waterfront seafood restaurant in North Carolina. Commenters suggested she wear red.

After reading this story, do you agree with her decision to end the engagement, or would you have chosen differently? Click here to read another story about a man who wanted his fiancée’s hymen checked by his dad in front of their family to prove her purity.